Please see this link to learn more… http://money.cnn.com/2013/08/29/pf/taxes/same-sex-marriage-tax/index.html?hpt=hp_t3
I put the link in two ways because I never know if I have done it correctly.
After reading this, Sylvia and I have talked about getting married in another state. I doubt we would file jointly on our taxes, but it would cover us when it came to the inheritance tax. We aren’t going to rush into it, but I am hoping we start saving some money to fly to another state and get married!!